EVERYDAY LEGACIES

By Executive Director Ron Ransom Butler ’00

One hundred years from now, how will you be remembered? Will it be for something remarkable you did or said? Perhaps for an idea or an invention. If you’re not careful, your legacy could become a cautionary tale, defined by a mistake or unfortunate accident. We all leave a mark on this world, each in our own way.

Ransom

History books often highlight someone for what they did. However, what can be overlooked in the accounts of exceptional individuals — and perhaps the very foundation of their legacy — is their character and who they are as people, because what truly made them extraordinary can’t be captured by a single moment in time.

Phi Kappa Psi’s Creed serves as a reminder that it isn’t an individual achievement that defines the person. Instead, it is how they live their life each day. We strive for intellectual, moral, and spiritual excellence, give aid and sympathy to those who are less fortunate, and we aim to practice moderation in our manners and morals. These ideals form the foundation of a life well-lived.

This edition of The Shield features some amazing individuals who have already established lasting legacies by living a life committed to the values of Phi Kappa Psi. George Weir’s CWRU ’67 selfless commitment to a community in Ghana, Ryan Perry’s Loyola ’15 never-ending desire to connect others and bring happiness to those around him, and Jeff Kalafut’s TCNJ ’98 self-sacrificing act to save an individual attempting to commit suicide highlight the character that truly defines someone’s legacy. 

While there are so many examples of amazing legacies throughout our organization, I’d like to reflect on two individuals that have had a profound impact on my life.   

For the past two years, our Fraternity had the privilege of having Bob Marchesani Butler ’94 (IUP ’79) as the National President. Bob may not always seek the spotlight, but that’s exactly why he’s remarkable. Bob is simply Bob, and I say that with the utmost respect. I met Bob 24 years ago at Butler University, back when I was a college freshman, uncertain about joining a fraternity. From our first encounter, Bob struck me as a leader who is respectful, kind, and thoughtful — a man of integrity. Since joining the Executive Council of Phi Kappa Psi, Bob has remained true to these values, always putting the Fraternity’s best interest before his own. Bob embraces traditions but recognizes the importance of growth and change. Bob’s respect for every brother — regardless of age, race, role, or background — has helped to shape the continued legacy of inclusion and commitment to the future of Phi Kappa Psi. 

Another individual who left an indelible mark on me is Paul Wineman Washington ’55, whom I first met nearly 20 years ago by a pool in Cabo San Lucas. Paul dedicated his life to serving others. From his time in the U.S. Army to his leadership roles in the Fraternity, Paul always put others before himself. While Paul is likely best known throughout the Fraternity for his expertise in negotiations, his legacy will always be, in my eyes, his boundless compassion and mentorship. I believe the enduring legacy Paul leaves behind was the true care he displayed when others needed guidance. Throughout his life, he became a mentor and friend to so many members of Phi Kappa Psi. He was always happy to listen when someone had a problem or issue that they needed help addressing, and never shied away from offering advice and support. His sincere follow-up, whether through a call, card, or email, showed the depth of his care.

While not every legacy will be written in history books, their impact on the lives of those around them is no less significant. It is these everyday legacies — the discreet acts of leadership, compassion, and integrity — that form the foundation of strong families, communities, and undeniably, our Fraternity.

Ronald K. Ransom II